For weeks, I've been getting emails from readers saying they haven't received their log in information or "forgotten password" reminder. I couldn't get my head around it because every single time I tried or had a friend try, it would work. Turns out it depends on who your service provider is.  My server company has submitted requests to AT&T and Comcast for INO to be removed from their block lists. All should be kosher moving forward by the end of next week.

Sorry for the delay in this matter.  

Hi Vera --

I checked the mail logs on the server and it has many messages from servers from AT&T and Comcast refusing connections -- I believe that was the cause of the problem. They refused connections from your server as an attempt to block spams because DNS wasn't configured the way they were expecting.

Other servers were probably behaving the same way, although only those two had enough messages to be noticed. I changed DNS to meet the usual standards and Comcast seems to be already accepting messages.

AT&T however required me to fill a form asking them to remove your server from their block list, so it will take a little bit more time until they check everything on their side. Please give it a couple days to the changes to take effect and let us know how it goes.

Lily Allen was spotted enjoying an afternoon of shopping in London and having lunch with a friend. Another thing she was spotted doing was changing her clothes behind a car door in the parking lot. I wouldn't be brave enough to do something like that in broad daylight, but what about you guys? Any weird places you've ever changed?

Photos by Bauer Griffin

Beyonce was photographed smiling and waving to the cameras as she left a building in New York the other day. I don't know why, but the outfit she's in reminds me of something Sienna Miller or Lara Flyn Boyle would wear. I know so random, but it's true. I actually love it on her! Marriage is treating her nicely.

UPDATE 4:48AM: COMMENTS ARE BACK ON!

Please be patient, I'm Not Obsessed is doing some upgrades, and comments will be turned on again soon. This is the new website, where you can join Groups, create Polls, subscribe to Threads, upload Avatars, and get a much more personal experience out of INO. Go ahead and create your account, and then you can edit your Profile Page. We hope you love it, but please bear with us as we smooth over the bumps in transition.

Thanks so much!! 

Wanted to send out a Happy Mother's Day to all mommies out there! And for everyone else, have a GREAT Sunday. Can't believe another year has flown by and now I have two.  We have a lot of traveling to do today as we are visiting both sides of the family. When will I be old enough to host a holiday? Perhaps when I hit 60, I can actually have something in my house. A girl can dream... :)

On her promotional press tour for Love Guru, Jessica Alba sat down with Ellen. You can even see a clip from her new movie with Mike Meyers.

I was invited to meet the editors of Women's Health Magazine today for an informal lunch / presentation and BOY did I get a lot of information! Not only am I head over heels in love with their online site, but I just might subscribe to their magazine after leafing through the one they gave me. I know this should live entirely on FitCeleb, as that section is solely dedicated to health and fitness, but I wanted to be sure everyone had a chance to read the 10 quick tips provided by nutritionist, Keri Glassman.
"10 Tips to Rule Your Kitchen for a Girl On-the-Go"
1. SWAP THE MAYO (or the sour cream)
Use nonfat Greek yogurt, which can serve as a great low fat substitution. Nonfat Greek yogurt also has many health benefits such as being high in calcium, protein, and containing probiotics.
2. PUREE
Use your favorite fruits and vegetables. You can do this in large batches, and then use them to speed up AND taste up cooking any time. If you want to make very large batches at one time, pureed fruits and vegetables can be frozen for about 2-3 months. Freezing them in ice cube trays will allow you to defrost the perfect amount needed!
3. INCREASE VOLUME
Increase the volume of your meals without adding calories to help you feel full for longer. Sound tricky? Here are some easy ways to do this.
4. GO FOR CHICKEN STOCK
Use the low sodium version! Add to mashed potatoes or mashed cauliflower instead of butter or cream, or steam veggies in chicken stock for added flavor instead of using butter or oil.
To read the rest of the tips, visit FitCeleb.

The lovely Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell were photographed enjoying a beautiful day bike riding through Brentwood. I think it's pretty apparent now why Kate Hudson is so beautiful. Just look at her mother and how, even at the age of 62 and with a bike helmet on and she still looks amazing. I loved pretty much every movie Goldie made and I'm sad to see her IMDb file with no current movies. Then again, she is finally enjoying her life without having to work or worry about staying current in the industry. That must be a really nice feeling.Bauer Griffin

She isn't a close friend, but Sonia Desormeaux is from my town and in my Bunko group (don't ask). Last week, we attended a get together and Sonia was talking about what she would wear to the Kentucky Derby very nonchalantly (cement pencil dress with an over-sized blue hat). A few days pass and a bunch of us head over to Belmont to enjoy a day at the races. Imagine the screams that came from our room when her husband WON the Kentucky Derby. Kent Desormeaux took quite the lead and everyone from town was rooting him along.
Congrats guys!! This will be some night to celebrate.
PS: A lot of people are telling me about the TMZ video that is posted about Sonia. The implants the reporter is referencing are on her son's head. He is deaf and had surgery to help him hear. So they made a mistake in talking about what was said. I hope they fix it soon.

Comments are getting deleted for some odd reason. Also I am getting a ton of emails saying Wordpress is giving an error when you try to leave a message on a post. Server is working on this as we speak.
Sorry for the inconvenience.
UPDATE from server ppl:
Vera,

I have located a large number of comments in the database that have a date in the future. This causes the comment not to be posted until after that date has passed. It is also (from what I have read) responsible for the error you and your users are seeing about posting too fast.
mysql> select * from wp_comments where comment_date like '2012%';
1334 rows in set (0.18 sec)
That's a lot of comments that probably didn't make it to your site! It seems as though these comments with the incorrect timestamp are not just from the past few days but have been spread out over a fairly long period of time. I am currently trying to figure the best way to fix these timestamps. I also will let you know why this has happened as I research a bit more.

Update II: Should be fixed (it's 4:30 PM). Let me know if you see a problem